Why we did not have a year-end sale for 2021….

I am sorry – I know many of you look forward to this sale each year. I hope to offer one this month to make up for it (January being “Hot Tea Month”).

My sister, Nanka Castulik-Byrne, died the week before Christmas. She passed on quickly with little pain and no long-term care or hospitalization. She died at home, with her husband (Bob) by her side.

We have always been rather pragmatic about death – and yet, there is a natural expression of grief – arising as a need for silence or pulling away from extra activity – the stillness of Winter. Between meeting the barest needs of the shop and my day job I had nothing left in me to attend to the behind the scenes pieces to implement and promote a sale. It seemed healthier and more important to me to respect the urges of my body/mind rather than the outward responsibility and routines of the business. There must be some benefit to being a business owner after all, to be able to make this call.

It is largely thanks to Nanka and her husband that Traveling Tea even exists. She gave me encouragement and support (emotional and financial) in the “getting started” hurdle – and then more, when I expanded into our storefront in Maplewood. She was a staunch supporter of buying local and regular attendee of the Tower Grove Farmers Market. She was also very passionate about women’s rights and safety – working for and with Safe Connections for many many years.

Nanka donated her body to SLU for the benefit of scientific research and, per her wishes, there will be no memorial service. Raise a cup of tea with your warm wishes for her memory and her family. She and Bob had a favorite “morning tea” of Earl Grey White Tip with milk and sugar. As a tribute from me, for her love and support, I will be donating a portion of proceeds for all Earl Grey White Tip sales from December 2021 through December 2022 to Safe Connections. If you would also like to make your own memorial gift, visit https://safeconnections.org/give/donate-now/